From the Little Lobbyists: Advocating for kids with complex medical needs by changing hearts and minds on Capitol Hill
When you spend day after day walking the halls of the Senate Office Buildings, telling your stories and those of other families like yours, you spend a lot of time wondering if anybody is listening, if anything you're doing is making a difference. There's a lot of self-doubt in putting yourself out there: is there any point in speaking up? Is putting our children in the public eye really worth it?
We had meeting after meeting and went into one office after another. We told our stories with sympathetic staffers; we met people who nodded at all the right times and who told us they cared about our children. We spoke with the press and told our stories at rallies and press conferences. We shared stories on Twitter, and watched the retweets and likes pour in. And yet, in spite of it all, several weeks in, we found ourselves wondering, "Is anybody listening? Is all of this effort making any difference at all?"
We had been keeping careful track of our office visits. We have a spreadsheet and pages of color-coded notes. We knew who we had visited, in which offices we were able to meet with a staffer, who the staffer was, and whether or not we had followed up. We were also keeping track of the senators we had met. A few of them we wrote in parentheses, because they were chance hallway encounters, and we didn't figure that really "counted."